{"id":473,"date":"2025-12-02T12:41:51","date_gmt":"2025-12-02T11:41:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/prelom-poradenstvo.sk\/?p=473"},"modified":"2025-12-02T13:29:36","modified_gmt":"2025-12-02T12:29:36","slug":"priebeh-poradenstva-deti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/prelom-poradenstvo.sk\/?p=473","title":{"rendered":"Priebeh poradenstva: deti"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Mil\u00ed rodi\u010dia, v tomto \u010dl\u00e1nku by som V\u00e1m rada pribl\u00ed\u017eila postup a progres poradensk\u00e9ho procesu V\u00e1\u0161ho die\u0165a\u0165a, aby ste lep\u0161ie rozumeli tomu, \u010do sa s n\u00edm v priebehu n\u00e1\u0161ho spolo\u010dn\u00e9ho stret\u00e1vania sa deje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Je d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 uvedomi\u0165 si, \u017ee proces poradenstva\/terapie je \u00faplne in\u00fd proces ne\u017e \u010doko\u013evek in\u00e9, \u010do si die\u0165a be\u017ene za\u017e\u00edva a t\u00fdm p\u00e1dom je aj jeho spr\u00e1vanie in\u00e9, ako v be\u017en\u00fdch situ\u00e1ciach \u017eivota. Die\u0165a si je vedom\u00e9 toho, \u017ee po\u010das poradenstva\/terapie sa od neho o\u010dak\u00e1va, \u017ee sa bude zam\u00fd\u0161\u013ea\u0165 nad svoj\u00edm spr\u00e1van\u00edm a pre\u017e\u00edvan\u00edm a \u017ee sa bude musie\u0165 t\u00fdm p\u00e1dom spoji\u0165 aj s udalos\u0165ami, ktor\u00e9 ho zranili a s nimi spojen\u00fdmi em\u00f3ciami, ktor\u00e9 v sebe potla\u010dilo, lebo nevedelo, ako sa s nimi vysporiada\u0165. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Okrem toho ide k cudziemu \u010dloveku, ktor\u00e9ho nepozn\u00e1, nevie \u010do od neho m\u00f4\u017ee o\u010dak\u00e1va\u0165, \u010di bude k nemu mil\u00fd alebo pr\u00edsny. Ob\u00e1va sa, \u017ee ho bude tla\u010di\u0165 rozpr\u00e1va\u0165 o veciach, ktor\u00e9 mu nie s\u00fa pr\u00edjemn\u00e9, takisto m\u00f4\u017ee ma\u0165 obavy, \u017ee nebude schopn\u00e9 plni\u0165 o\u010dak\u00e1vania psychol\u00f3ga alebo V\u00e1s rodi\u010dov a t\u00fdm V\u00e1s sklame. Toto v\u0161etko m\u00f4\u017ee \u00eds\u0165 die\u0165a\u0165u na za\u010diatku hlavou. To samozrejme sp\u00f4sobuje u die\u0165a\u0165a \u00fazkos\u0165 a stres, ktor\u00e9 sa m\u00f4\u017eu odstr\u00e1ni\u0165 len tak, \u017ee si z\u00edskame jeho d\u00f4veru. Proces z\u00edskavania d\u00f4very trv\u00e1 u ka\u017ed\u00e9ho die\u0165a\u0165a r\u00f4zne dlho v z\u00e1vislosti od jeho povahy a sk\u00fasenost\u00ed s \u013eu\u010fmi. Pokia\u013e budeme na die\u0165a tla\u010di\u0165, aby sa otvorilo predt\u00fdm, ne\u017e je na to pripraven\u00e9 sp\u00f4sob\u00edme prav\u00fd opak toho, \u010do chceme a die\u0165a sa bu\u010f uzavrie alebo bude hovori\u0165 o veciach, ktor\u00e9 nie s\u00fa skuto\u010dne podstatn\u00e9, len aby n\u00e1m urobilo rados\u0165, \u010do cel\u00fd proces skomplikuje a pred\u013a\u017ei. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Preto je d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 re\u0161pektova\u0165 individu\u00e1lny proces die\u0165a\u0165a. Die\u0165a si vie prirodzene regulova\u0165 proces vytv\u00e1rania d\u00f4very a vz\u0165ahu a jedn\u00fdm zo sp\u00f4sobov, ak\u00fdm to rob\u00ed je aj hra. Rodi\u010dov t\u00edned\u017eerov \u010dasto prekvap\u00ed, \u017ee sa ich deti u m\u0148a chc\u00fa hra\u0165, ke\u010f\u017ee doma sa u\u017e nehraj\u00fa. Hra je, ale pre die\u0165a tak prirodzen\u00e1, ako pre n\u00e1s rozhovor. Prostredn\u00edctvom hry sa dok\u00e1\u017ee die\u0165a uvo\u013eni\u0165, regulova\u0165 svoje em\u00f3cie a vytv\u00e1ra\u0165 si vz\u0165ah s dospel\u00fdm, s ktor\u00fdm sa hr\u00e1. Hra poskytuje die\u0165a\u0165u bezpe\u010die, je pre\u0148 zn\u00e1ma a prirodzen\u00e1, nevy\u017eaduje od neho v\u00fdkon, naopak pom\u00e1ha mu uvo\u013eni\u0165 sa a je pre\u0148 zn\u00e1mym a bezpe\u010dn\u00fdm priestorom v nezn\u00e1mom prostred\u00ed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Preto, pros\u00edm, dovo\u013ete svojim de\u0165om, hra\u0165 sa a d\u00f4verujte im, \u017ee to nerobia preto, lebo V\u00e1m chc\u00fa urobi\u0165 napriek, ale preto, \u017ee sa najsk\u00f4r potrebuj\u00fa c\u00edti\u0165 isto a bezpe\u010dne, aby sa dok\u00e1zali spoji\u0165 so situ\u00e1ciami a em\u00f3ciami, ktor\u00e9 s\u00fa n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9, komplikovan\u00e9 a \u010dastokr\u00e1t aj desiv\u00e9. Ve\u010f napokon aj my, dospel\u00ed, sa ob\u010das radi hr\u00e1me, lebo hra n\u00e1m prin\u00e1\u0161a pote\u0161enie, z\u00e1bavu a \u00fa\u013eavu od starost\u00ed \u017eivota.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Ako za\u010dneme<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Na za\u010diatok nadvia\u017eem na to, \u010do ste mi p\u00edsali alebo hovorili do telef\u00f3nu. V prvom rade V\u00e1s budem po\u010d\u00fava\u0165, preto\u017ee na za\u010diatku je d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9, aby ste Vy sami zadefinovali \u010do sa V\u00e1m v \u017eivote deje a pre\u010do ste sa rozhodli vyh\u013eada\u0165 pomoc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mojim cie\u013eom je, aby ste sa u m\u0148a c\u00edtili pr\u00edjemne a sami sa rozhodli o \u010dom chcete na prvom stretnut\u00ed rozpr\u00e1va\u0165. Nie je pre m\u0148a nevyhnutn\u00e9 zadefinova\u0165 si konkr\u00e9tny cie\u013e ku ktor\u00e9mu sa m\u00e1me dosta\u0165, ale sprev\u00e1dza\u0165 V\u00e1s na Va\u0161ej ceste \u017eivotom a pom\u00f4c\u0165 V\u00e1m prekona\u0165 to, \u010do V\u00e1s v \u017eivote tr\u00e1pi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Stretnutie s die\u0165a\u0165om<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Pokia\u013e ku mne prich\u00e1dza Va\u0161e die\u0165a, tak m\u00e1m pre\u0148ho pripraven\u00e9 r\u00f4zne spolo\u010densk\u00e9 hry, m\u00f4\u017ee si kresli\u0165 alebo ma\u013eova\u0165 a cez tak\u00fato formu hry spolu <\/a>nadv\u00e4zujeme vz\u0165ah a rozpr\u00e1vame sa o tom ako sa v \u017eivote m\u00e1, \u010do ho tr\u00e1pi a \u010do s t\u00fdm m\u00f4\u017eeme urobi\u0165.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Mil\u00ed rodi\u010dia, v tomto \u010dl\u00e1nku by som V\u00e1m rada pribl\u00ed\u017eila postup a progres poradensk\u00e9ho procesu V\u00e1\u0161ho die\u0165a\u0165a, aby ste lep\u0161ie rozumeli tomu, \u010do sa s n\u00edm v priebehu n\u00e1\u0161ho spolo\u010dn\u00e9ho stret\u00e1vania sa deje. Je d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 uvedomi\u0165 si, \u017ee proces poradenstva\/terapie je \u00faplne in\u00fd proces ne\u017e \u010doko\u013evek in\u00e9, \u010do si die\u0165a be\u017ene za\u017e\u00edva a t\u00fdm p\u00e1dom […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":474,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-473","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t